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A booked appointment with a professional dominant or fetish provider. Who, how long and what is and is not included are settled beforehand, in a pre-talk that at some studios is free and does not count against the booked time.

The settling is done in a pre-talk — Vorgespräch in German-speaking studios. Lady Viola in Hamburg describes hers as free and non-binding, held before the clock starts, and covering preferences, taboos and physical restrictions. She also asks visitors to decide the length in advance, because extending is normally not possible.

What that pre-talk produces is a set of limits. Fetish House in Melbourne puts it as customising the scene to tastes "comfortably within your limits", and lets the visitor choose who conducts it — a dominatrix, a master, a submissive, a trans mistress, or more than one together.

Booking a session is not the same as booking a room. Clandestino BDSM in Barcelona lets dungeons by the hour and states on its own front page that it has no professional staff for sessions. A session books a person; a dungeon books a space.

Frequently asked questions

What is agreed before a session?

Preferences, taboos and physical restrictions, plus how long the booking runs. Lady Viola's site lists exactly those and asks visitors to fix the length in advance, since extending is normally not possible.

Does the pre-talk cost time or money?

At that studio, no — the pre-talk is described as free and non-binding, and outside the booked session time, as are showering and the talk afterwards. Other studios set their own terms, so ask.

Is sex part of a session?

Not by default, and there is no standard. What is and is not included is what the pre-talk settles, provider by provider.

Can I book a session at any BDSM venue?

No. Some venues only let the rooms. Clandestino in Barcelona says so on its front page: the dungeons are for hire, the staff for sessions is not there.

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