Kinky Paradise describes itself as the most exciting and all-inclusive kinky, fetish and erotic party for like-minded, open-minded people — and the all-inclusive part is the thing that sets it apart from the rest of the Dutch calendar. One ticket covers unlimited use of everything the venue has, so there is no bar tab, no per-room charge and no running total to think about during the evening.

Since October 2026 its home has been Club Organza in Breukelen, a move the organisers marked as a new chapter after years at other locations. The party runs roughly monthly and each edition carries a theme — Let's Glow Together, Only Kinky, Early Santa, Sweet Sins — with the house line being dress to impress, always inside the dress code.

That dress code is specific and enforced by a doorbitch whose decision is final: lacquer, latex, rubber, leather and imitation leather, neoprene and metal are in; sneakers, flip-flops, bare feet and ordinary fabric clothing or underwear are out. If you turn up without a suitable outfit there is a stand on site with a collection you can try on and buy, which in practice means a first-timer is not turned away for the want of a wardrobe — a deliberately low barrier for a party with a strict door.

Two other details tell you what kind of evening this is. Reservations are made by email or WhatsApp rather than through a ticket shop, and the host reserves the right to refuse single men without a reservation in order to keep the balance of the room — so booking ahead is not optional if you are coming alone. And you can sleep in a camper on the car park, provided you tell the organisers in advance, which suits guests travelling in from further afield. Browse EroticAdvisor for the next Kinky Paradise dates, themes and dress code.