My Frisky Business is a Long Island lifestyle party brand run by Jessica and hosted by the couple its guests know as J and J. It holds no premises: its big nights are full takeovers of a West Babylon swingers club, and it also runs off-premise meet-and-greets, a summer beach party and an annual weekend across the border in Ontario.

The brand's own line is that everyone friendly and like-minded is welcome, and that its events run without pressure — the point being to bring people together and make friends rather than to push anyone anywhere. Its guests' testimonials keep landing on the same word: the hosts treat everybody the same regardless of who they are or what they look like.

The on-premise nights are themed and follow a settled pattern — doors at 10 PM, party until 3, resident DJs, bring your own bottle in something discreet, with soda, mixers and water at the bar and a buffet for the late hours. Admission is cash or Venmo on the door, with an ATM, coat check and lockers inside.

The off-premise events are the softer entry point: a meet-and-greet at a Melville gentlemen's club where the brand's wristband is how you find the group, and a daytime beach party at a state park that is open to everyone and to other lifestyle groups too. Dates are published on the My Frisky Business site — check there for the next one, and browse our New York guide for the state's venues and other party brands.