Secret Desire is a Dutch party organisation that stages themed erotic evenings in venues it dresses from scratch rather than premises of its own. In its own words it hosts its events at special locations that are furnished completely in the Secret Desire atmosphere — so the room changes from edition to edition while the look does not. Each edition carries its own theme, and the organisers describe the result as a night with a character of its own rather than a standing club evening.

The evening is built as a curated whole. Live DJs, entertainment and VIP arrangements sit inside a programme the organisers assemble in order, and they are explicit that every element — location, music, styling, entertainment and the flow of the night — is chosen to produce an intimate and elegant atmosphere. Guests who want to carry on afterwards are given after-party suggestions rather than left to find their own.

The organisation names four values and applies them as house rules: exclusivity, a carefully selected circle of guests; a curated experience, where ambience and service are deliberate; privacy, which it calls part of its identity; and elegance, the mix of style and sensual detail it treats as its signature. The hosts describe their own role as introducing guests rather than merely admitting them — welcoming new arrivals, making introductions and drawing people into the evening.

Access runs through a member area on the organisation's own site, with a newsletter for announcements and a mailing list for invitations and discounts, and the calendar is published as a series of forthcoming dates on its events page. Check the organiser's own events page for the current edition and its venue, and browse our Utrecht and Amsterdam guides for the wider Dutch lifestyle scene.