A truly fantastic swingers club! The atmosphere is lovely and cozy, and you immediately feel at ease. The food is delicious, and there's something for everyone. The vibe is always amazing – relaxed, respectful, and fun. We'd especially like to commend the owners: they are incredibly kind and welcoming, and they take wonderful care of their guests. You can tell they put a lot of love into this place. We love coming here and are already looking forward to our next visit. Highly recommended!

For years, we used to love going there. The food was great, the owner was always in a good mood and got the party started, and there were often lots of nice people there. And that's precisely the problem: THERE WERE NICE PEOPLE THERE! We will be avoiding the club from now on. The clientele has deteriorated significantly over the last 12 months, and it's more of an ordeal of stress, arguments, insults, and general trouble than anything else. Of course, if you let these "nice" people in, you shouldn't be surprised when many older swingers stay away. It's just unacceptable now; as a woman, I'm not fair game! Fortunately, Hanover and the surrounding area have plenty of places that pay attention to WHO gets in and, more importantly, WHO doesn't! But to each their own!

As a couple, we visited Swinger Park Extra in Bad Nenndorf for the first time and were unfortunately very disappointed. The evening started off badly right at the entrance. The woman who handled reception and admission (possibly the owner) was extremely unfriendly, stressed, and very rude to us. We noticed that this tone wasn't just directed at us, but was applied to almost all guests in the entrance area. Unfortunately, this behavior continued throughout the entire evening. Before our visit, we had specifically asked for a tour of the premises. We received written confirmation that this would, of course, be offered so that we could familiarize ourselves with the club, the rules, and the layout. However, despite asking again, this tour was not provided on site, and instead, we were rather irritated and dismissed. This is particularly disappointing for first-time visitors. We also found the way the owner treated female guests especially unpleasant. We repeatedly witnessed derogatory remarks and body shaming directed at women. We expect respectful and appreciative treatment from the host of such an open and tolerant community – unfortunately, the opposite was true. The premises themselves are generally nicely designed. However, there is clearly a lack of proper ventilation. The playrooms, in particular, were extremely stuffy, making the stay there quickly unpleasant. The biggest point of criticism, however, concerns the clientele and the lack of control. It was advertised as an event for younger couples. Nevertheless, numerous single men were present who, in our opinion, had no business being there. Furthermore, we had the impression that some so-called couples were only admitted together and then immediately separated – in some cases, the woman even left the club right away. Even worse, however, was the behavior of some single men. A clear "no" was repeatedly ignored. There were unwanted touching and groping incidents without prior consent. Especially in a swingers club, respect, mutual consent, and respecting boundaries should be top priorities. Unfortunately, there was far too little evidence of this that evening. One situation in particular has stayed with us: Three men, who appeared to be of Middle Eastern descent, repeatedly harassed and groped other guests. While doing so, they spoke to each other in another language and laughed. This made the already uncomfortable situation even more disconcerting, as the people being harassed couldn't understand what was being said. My husband himself has a Southern European background. Precisely for this reason, we believe that at such a sensitive event, it should go without saying that one behaves respectfully and, when in a mixed group, speaks a language that everyone can understand. Even more importantly, however, boundaries should be respected and a clear "no" accepted without argument. For me, as a woman, this was absolutely unacceptable and overshadowed the entire evening. We will therefore not be visiting this club again and unfortunately cannot recommend it.

Until yesterday, I actually always enjoyed going to Extra 3. The food is always good, Sascha is always in a good mood, and the atmosphere is great. The owner can't be held responsible for the guests. That some men behaved badly last night or even urinated next to the toilet is truly outrageous, but it's not the owner's fault. However, being repeatedly yelled at by the owner really hurt me yesterday. I always help clean up, clearing away empty bottles and glasses to make things easier, and I always put leftover towels in the laundry baskets. I'm always nice and polite, and I always thank people for a lovely evening. But yesterday, I was speechless. Yesterday was a singles meet-up, and women got in for free. And the men had paid around 100 euros. We overheard several other people being snapped at as well. But we were actually yelled at and told we weren't allowed downstairs anymore. (There were still a lot of people downstairs; it was 1 a.m.) They said they were closing downstairs and we weren't allowed back in, that they'd already cleaned, and that we had no business being there anymore. They even asked if they should clean up our vomit. I should mention that we hadn't drunk nearly that much. We were perfectly sober. I drank two shandies and a Schöffi all evening, and otherwise, I just had the delicious Spezi from the fridge. When we were treated like that, tears welled up in my eyes because I was so overwhelmed by the situation. At the end of the evening, I still went back to the woman and thanked her for her work and the great evening. Then all she said was, "Yeah, nice to eat all the food for free." So, I didn't set the prices. I'm happy to pay, even as a woman. No one demanded free entry. For me, the singles party just happened to fall on my only child-free evening. And I actually enjoy going to clubs. And without women, there wouldn't have been so many men there either... For me, that was the last time, which I'm really sad about because I actually really enjoy going there and I really like Sascha. I like the atmosphere, I like the people, and I like the club itself. I'm very sad about it, but I sincerely wish the owners all the best. It's usually worth a visit, and until yesterday I recommended the club to everyone who asked, saying it was the best of the three we have here. Nice club, great food, and everything else is really great.

We were there as a couple and have absolutely no complaints. Everything was fantastic: the food, drinks, service, and attractions. We especially want to highlight DJ Lulu; she's completely dedicated to her job and readily accepts music requests. It was a joy to watch her work. We'd love to come back.