Fri 16 Oct 2026 · 18:00 – 21:00
Kinktoberfest 2026 — Free Vendor and Educator Social
Purgatory Facility · Albuquerque
Organised by NM-REAL
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Fri 16 Oct 2026 · 21:00 – 00:00
Risqué Ritual — Taste of Kink
Secret location, Salt Lake City — address released to ticket holders · Salt Lake City
Organised by Risqué Soirée
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Fri 16 Oct 2026 · 21:00 – 03:00
RolePlay Philly Presents Threesomes & Moresomes
RolePlay, Philadelphia · Philadelphia
Organised by RolePlay Philly
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Sat 17 Oct 2026 · 09:00 – Sun 18 Oct 2026
Kinktoberfest 2026 — Main Event
Purgatory Facility · Albuquerque
Organised by NM-REAL
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Sat 17 Oct 2026 · 22:00 – 04:00
Hollywood: Customer Appreciation Halloween Edition
The Cloud Lounge · Hollywood
Organised by Submission Party
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Sun 18 Oct 2026 · 19:00 – 23:59
House of Hades: Gate 6 — The Masked Revels
Organised by Untamed Nights
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Thu 22 Oct 2026 · 09:28 – 21:00
The Umbral Court Poolside Pumpkin Party
Cabana Club · Austin
Organised by Umbral Court Events
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Fri 23 Oct 2026
Kinky Contact — Halloween Opening Festival
Nachtwerk München · Munich
Organised by Bavarian Fetish
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Fri 23 Oct 2026 · 18:00 – Sun 25 Oct 2026
IPG Halloween: Scare Me Stiff
Host hotel, Scranton PA — released to ticket holders only · Scranton
Organised by IntimateParties Group
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Fri 23 Oct 2026 · 21:00 – 02:00
Club Femdom
The Hatch Club · London
Organised by Events By Sakura
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Sat 24 Oct 2026 · 19:00 – 00:00
20th Annual Halloween Erotic Ball
Red Lotus Entertainment Office · West Valley City
Organised by Risqué Soirée
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Sat 24 Oct 2026 · 20:00 – 01:30
Carnival of Absurdities — Tempe Halloween Kinky Play Party
HoCTwo Tempe, Tempe AZ · Tempe
Organised by House of Candi
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Sat 24 Oct 2026
Toxic Fetishparty Gemert 2026
Time Out · Gemert
Organised by Toxic Fetishparty
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Sat 24 Oct 2026 · 21:00 – 02:30
Hot Coco & Cream Halloween 2026
Breukelen — venue sent on confirmation · Breukelen
Organised by Hot Coco & Cream
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Sat 24 Oct 2026 · 21:00 – 02:00
Boo
165 Poe St, Providence · Providence
Organised by Mindbender Parties
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Sat 24 Oct 2026 · 21:00
STRIPPED — Kinky Depeche Mode & 80er Dance & Play Party
Grande Opera · Offenbach am Main
Organised by GILLIAN EVENTS
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Sat 24 Oct 2026 · 22:00 – 03:00
A Nightmare on Frisky Street
Medusa's Playhouse · West Babylon
Organised by My Frisky Business
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Sun 25 Oct 2026 · 20:00 – 00:00
Halloween Fetish Ball
colette San Antonio · San Antonio
Organised by Temple of Flesh
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