The Real Boss

4.5 (20)

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The Real Boss - Gay Fetish Erotic Night Club BDSM

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4.5 (20)

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The Real Boss is the gay and bi-men cruise bar for The Hague and surrounding areas. Upon entry, guests receive a lockable sports bag for their belongings and clothing. Drinks are served in bottles or cans and settled upon departure by cash or PIN. Condoms and water-based lubricant are available on-site. The venue hosts regular themed events including fist fuck parties, fetish nights, naked evenings, and lazy Sunday parties. A host is always present to welcome new visitors, explain the house rules, and give a tour of the premises. The dress code varies per event, ranging from no dress code to fetish, naked, or underwear. First-time visitors are warmly encouraged to introduce themselves at the door.

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5 reviews

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Thiercy V.G.

Mar 2026 on Google →

This sex club is a very pleasant establishment. The place is rather cramped with only three small rooms. Consequently, there are relatively few clients, but I suppose quality is better than quantity. There are no private booths. But it's a comfortable place. There are fairly clean toilets and a shower. The reception is very pleasant. Thank you to Anita for her helpfulness. The only drawback is the inconsistent opening hours.

Adrien Bosquet

Aug 2025 on Google →

I loved this place; there's a small entrance fee and the prices are reasonable, unlike other bars of this style I've visited. I can't wait to go back.

Jan Cörfgen

Apr 2025 on Google →

Well … It‘s good that a city has this kind of places but to be frank I found it pretty much overpriced for what it was. Had 3 small 0,2 beers and paid 26€. Not sure if there was a special event or entry fee - but at least it seemed like a very random normal night. The place is quite small and … simple. The bartender was friendly though.

Maurice H

Jan 2025 on Google →

Super fun and cozy bar with a lot of fun in the back. I've only been twice now and had a great evening both times. I'll be visiting The Boss again this weekend. A great place in The Hague! x maurice

Anyo Angelov

Sep 2024 on Google →

I went yesterday to visit the real boss. I had amazing experience such friendly people and the bar attender made me feel so comfortable and relaxed 😌 thanks for the good vibes looking forward to back again

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Rijswijkseweg 536

2516 HT The Hague

South Holland, The Netherlands

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opening hours

monday	12:00 – 17:00
tuesday	closed
wednesday	closed
thursday	19:00 – 01:00
friday	12:00 – 02:00
saturday	12:00 – 02:00
sunday	14:00 – 21:00

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Prostitution between adults is legal in the Netherlands, and sex businesses have been lawful since the brothel ban was lifted on 1 October 2000. There is no national licensing law: municipalities regulate through their local bylaw (APV), deciding whether and where clubs, windows, escort agencies and home-based work are allowed and licensing operators. Criminal law targets trafficking and exploitation (art. 273f Sr), sex with sellers under 18 and, since 2022, clients who know or should suspect a sex worker is trafficked (art. 273g Sr). In 2026 the government dropped the Wet regulering sekswerk, announced a statutory minimum age of 21 and tabled a bill on municipal supervision; a modernised trafficking law was enacted, and a bill obliging sex-ad platforms to verify advertisers' identity and age is before the Senate. Source: Prostitution Laws (prostitutionlaws.org), https://prostitutionlaws.org/countries/netherlands/, reviewed 2026-11-04, CC BY 4.0.